Queenship of Mary

...serving the communities of Plainsboro & Cranbury 

in the Diocese of Metuchen, NJ

Guidelines

 

 

I.          Introduction:

To be in ministry is to serve the Lord and His people --- it is a privilege, not a right!  A Minister of Hospitality serves God and God’s people at Mass by welcoming everyone into church. 

Your part in this ministry helps set the tone for all who take part in the Mass. What you do and how you do it can help other people understand that you are proud to serve and encourages others to be actively involved.  You are the first face to be encountered as people arrive.  Welcome each person as if Christ himself were walking in the door.

 

You are asked to take this ministry seriously and to realize that it is done as a response to God’s call to service in the church.  As a minister of hospitality you will be a positive presence within this parish.

 

II.         Expectations before Mass:

 

A.    Arrive at Church 15 minutes before Mass begins.  Sign in and wear a badge.  Let other ushers know you are serving on that day.  Find other ministers if those scheduled have not arrived. Attendance is monitored, and excessive absences will lead us to ask you to reconsider serving in this ministry.  Be attentive to the noise level in the lobby, as parishioners are praying in church.

 

B.    Maintain a spirit of appropriate reverence. This reverence is shown by your demeanor, your manner and your dress. Therefore, you should be appropriately dressed whenever you are scheduled to serve. Sweat pants, sweat shirts, t-shirts, jeans, shorts, sneakers, flip flops, uncovered shoulders, etc. are not considered appropriate. Exceptions may be allowed if you are filling in without advanced notice and no other ministers are available.

 

C.   Make sure the collection baskets and bags are in place.  If two sets of bags are out that means there will be two collections. Keep the door to the Lobby Meeting Room closed at all times. Keep the inner Church doors closed.  This will allow people to pray because the lobby can be noisy. 

 

D.   Greet people in a friendly manner and welcome everyone.  Be attentive to your duties and avoid engaging in conversations that take your attention away from your ministry.   Introduce yourself to newcomers.  Be ready to offer assistance to people who may appear to need it.  (Elderly, adults with kids, persons with disabilities - make sure you give them room to refuse help.)

 

E.   The Usher Captain should select a family or individuals to present the gifts.  Offer to signal to them when the time comes.  Please note that some times first Eucharist children and families may have been scheduled to bring up the gifts, the schedule should be in the lobby meeting room.  If the scheduled gift bearers do not arrive and identify themselves 5 minutes prior to the start of Mass, you must select other parishioners for this task. 

   

F.    Observe sacred silence.  Be courteous at all times.  Gently guide people to sit towards the front of the church first.  Should it start to get too crowded, invite people to move into the pew to make room for others to be seated.  Take the initiative to lead people to open seats if seating gets sparse.  Guide those who need your assistance.  Remember that there are designated areas for wheelchairs.  There may also be persons who need to be close so that Communion can be easily brought to them. 

 

G.   When the bells ring open the center doors and wait for the procession to begin.  As soon as all members of the procession are inside the church close center doors.  Late comers should use the side doors to enter the church.  Those leaving the church prior to the end of the procession should exit the church through the side doors.

Complete Guidelines

 

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PO Box 759 - 16 Dey Road - Plainsboro, NJ 08536 - 609 799 7511 - Fax 609 799 8904